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| Saying Goodbye |
| Saying “Goodbye,” is never easy. Whether it’s due to a child leaving home, a best friend being transferred to a new job, moving to a retirement home or relocating, there is often a great deal of sadness. There are other experiences of separation that are painful too but, with all of them, there is always at least some prospect of seeing the other person again. When someone we love dies, it is far different. |
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| We face the painful reality that the separation is permanent, certainly for the remainder of our life - that’s why, whenever possible, it is important to say “Goodbye,” before the person dies. Unfortunately, we don’t always have the opportunity to do this; when we do, it’s often not enough. We may need several more occasions to bid, “Farewell,” before we feel we have really finished saying, “Goodbye,” or, can let the person ‘go’. |
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Practises involving seeing the deceased in a Place or Chapel of Rest differ amongst cultures but the grieving process can be aided by such a visit. Accepting the facts regarding the deceased can be more readily helped if not at this juncture, certainly later in the future but, it remains a personal choice and, an option. In some situations, the practice may not be advisable but your funeral director will guide you accordingly. |
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